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Couples Break Up for the Same Reason they Get Together

It all has to do with core fears and vulnerabilities. One…

Reflecting on My Parents’ 50th Anniversary

I spend many hours a week with loving, amazing, dedicated couples…

Marriage – Not 50 -50, More Like 80-20.

Looking for "fairness" or "equality" in marriage will lead you…

Second Chances

"If it weren't for second chances we would all be alone" -…

There was an Affair. Can We Heal?

Yes. But. In my experience, at minimum it requires 4 things: …

Marriage – Don’t Believe the Hype

Looking for a place to hang your hat and feel accepted for…

The Integrated Turtle

I had just finished an emotional session with an amazing young…

Lovers Facing Each Other and the Beyond

Working with couples, the most significant shift I get the privilege…

You didn’t make a mistake, its just hard…

You didn’t make a mistake, it’s just hard… As a couple…

3 Relationship Myths (and the truth)

False Relationship Belief #1 Myth: You never hurt someone you…